iOS: only exclude i386 while using hermes (#38132)

Summary:
- if an existing iOS project specifies `EXCLUDED_ARCHS`, these settings are overwritten by the `react_native_post_install` step as part of the Cocoapods install
- closes https://github.com/facebook/react-native/issues/35544

### Existing Behaviour

- one of the functions called as part of the `react_native_post_install` step is `exclude_i386_architecture_while_using_hermes`
  - see [/packages/react-native/scripts/cocoapods/utils.rb](https://github.com/facebook/react-native/blob/v0.72.1/packages/react-native/scripts/cocoapods/utils.rb#L56-L69)
```
    def self.exclude_i386_architecture_while_using_hermes(installer)
        projects = self.extract_projects(installer)

        # Hermes does not support `i386` architecture
        excluded_archs_default = self.has_pod(installer, 'hermes-engine') ? "i386" : ""

        projects.each do |project|
            project.build_configurations.each do |config|
                config.build_settings["EXCLUDED_ARCHS[sdk=iphonesimulator*]"] = excluded_archs_default
            end

            project.save()
        end
    end
```

🐛 **However** 🐛

- this function is currently called regardless of whether or not you are **actually** using Hermes
- this means existing projects that have `EXCLUDED_ARCHS` set, the existing value will be changed either to `"i386"` or a blank string

### Changed Behaviour

- moved the function call inside an `if ReactNativePodsUtils.has_pod(installer, "React-hermes")` block
- `EXCLUDED_ARCHS` should only be modified if needed now

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[IOS] [FIXED] Only modify EXCLUDED_ARCHS when needed for Hermes

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/38132

Reviewed By: cortinico

Differential Revision: D47149618

Pulled By: cipolleschi

fbshipit-source-id: cffc2a0d4bc35fa4e933d3f4df6ee85e2f5c4486

packages/react-native/scripts/react_native_pods.rb

@@ -238,9 +238,9 @@ def react_native_post_install(
 
   if ReactNativePodsUtils.has_pod(installer, "React-hermes")
     ReactNativePodsUtils.set_gcc_preprocessor_definition_for_React_hermes(installer)
+    ReactNativePodsUtils.exclude_i386_architecture_while_using_hermes(installer)
   end
 
-  ReactNativePodsUtils.exclude_i386_architecture_while_using_hermes(installer)
   ReactNativePodsUtils.fix_library_search_paths(installer)
   ReactNativePodsUtils.update_search_paths(installer)
   ReactNativePodsUtils.set_node_modules_user_settings(installer, react_native_path)