### Motivation
When creating a connection, we wrongfully assumed that
`failedToCreateNewConnection` will always be called before
`http*ConnectionClosed` in the `HTTPConnectionPoolStateMachine`. However
this is far from correct. In NIO Futures are fulfilled before
`ChannelHandler` callbacks. Ordering in futures should not be assumed in
such a complex project.
### Change
We change the `http*ConnectionClosed` methods to be noops, if the
connection is in the starting state. We instead wait for the
`failedToCreateNewConnection` to create backoff timers and friends.
rdar://164674912
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Co-authored-by: George Barnett <gbarnett@apple.com>