Allow per-file setting for rename default behavior preferences (#29593)

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Fixes #29585.
#29314 and #29385 made it so their respective settings are only recognized when provided to the host as a whole.
This PR makes it so that the relevant settings for the preferences on the file override those of the preferences on the host.

src/services/findAllReferences.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,7 @@ namespace ts.FindAllReferences {
         readonly implementations?: boolean;
         /**
          * True to opt in for enhanced renaming of shorthand properties and import/export specifiers.
+         * The options controls the behavior for the whole rename operation; it cannot be changed on a per-file basis.
          * Default is false for backwards compatibility.
          */
         readonly providePrefixAndSuffixTextForRename?: boolean;