Update podspecs to use the ReactNativeDependencies or build from source (#49968)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/49968

Updates all the core podspec to use the new `ReactNativeDependencies` podspec

## Changelog:

[INTERNAL] - Updates Modules in core to use the new dependencies.

Test Plan:
✅ Run Rn-Tester and  verify that it works as expected both building deps from source and using prebuilt tarballs
✅ Add third-party library (react-native-reanimated) and perform the same tests to verify that it works with the changed podspec and utilities

Reviewed By: cortinico

Differential Revision: D71032639

Pulled By: cipolleschi

fbshipit-source-id: e53179a8c1b47ee2b945f5cb5dfaf3f6f2755af2

packages/rn-tester/NativeComponentExample/MyNativeView.podspec

@@ -7,8 +7,6 @@ require "json"
 
 package = JSON.parse(File.read(File.join(__dir__, "../" "package.json")))
 
-boost_compiler_flags = '-Wno-documentation'
-
 Pod::Spec.new do |s|
   s.name            = "MyNativeView"
   s.version         = package["version"]
@@ -17,11 +15,11 @@ Pod::Spec.new do |s|
   s.homepage        = "https://github.com/sota000/my-native-view.git"
   s.license         = "MIT"
   s.platforms       = min_supported_versions
-  s.compiler_flags  = boost_compiler_flags + ' -Wno-nullability-completeness'
+  s.compiler_flags  = '-Wno-nullability-completeness'
   s.author          = "Meta Platforms, Inc. and its affiliates"
   s.source          = { :git => "https://github.com/facebook/my-native-view.git", :tag => "#{s.version}" }
   s.pod_target_xcconfig    = {
-    "HEADER_SEARCH_PATHS" => "\"$(PODS_ROOT)/RCT-Folly\" \"$(PODS_ROOT)/boost\" \"${PODS_CONFIGURATION_BUILD_DIR}/ReactCodegen/ReactCodegen.framework/Headers\"",
+    "HEADER_SEARCH_PATHS" => "\"${PODS_CONFIGURATION_BUILD_DIR}/ReactCodegen/ReactCodegen.framework/Headers\"",
     "CLANG_CXX_LANGUAGE_STANDARD" => rct_cxx_language_standard()
   }