Update podspecs to use the ReactNativeDependencies or build from source (#49968)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/49968

Updates all the core podspec to use the new `ReactNativeDependencies` podspec

## Changelog:

[INTERNAL] - Updates Modules in core to use the new dependencies.

Test Plan:
✅ Run Rn-Tester and  verify that it works as expected both building deps from source and using prebuilt tarballs
✅ Add third-party library (react-native-reanimated) and perform the same tests to verify that it works with the changed podspec and utilities

Reviewed By: cortinico

Differential Revision: D71032639

Pulled By: cipolleschi

fbshipit-source-id: e53179a8c1b47ee2b945f5cb5dfaf3f6f2755af2

packages/react-native/ReactCommon/React-Mapbuffer.podspec

@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@ Pod::Spec.new do |s|
   s.exclude_files          = "react/renderer/mapbuffer/tests"
   s.public_header_files    = 'react/renderer/mapbuffer/*.h'
   s.header_dir             = "react/renderer/mapbuffer"
-  s.pod_target_xcconfig = {  "HEADER_SEARCH_PATHS" => "\"$(PODS_TARGET_SRCROOT)\"", "USE_HEADERMAP" => "YES",
+  s.pod_target_xcconfig = {  "HEADER_SEARCH_PATHS" => ["\"$(PODS_TARGET_SRCROOT)\""], "USE_HEADERMAP" => "YES",
                             "CLANG_CXX_LANGUAGE_STANDARD" => rct_cxx_language_standard() }
 
   if ENV['USE_FRAMEWORKS']
@@ -37,7 +37,7 @@ Pod::Spec.new do |s|
     s.module_name             = 'React_Mapbuffer'
   end
 
-  s.dependency "glog"
   add_dependency(s, "React-debug")
+  add_rn_third_party_dependencies(s)
 
 end